Until subjective and objective "reality" kiss and make up it can always appear like like someone else is the asshole and not you. Thank god for individualized ego's. Or just thank yourself and watch as "others" are thankful with you.
mmm.. the video in the OP does paint the deception as evil (the scary music = fear, fear, fear) but no matter how neutral everything is under the surface, particular choices bring about particular consequences.. so therefore knowing what the asshole is doing is helpful in drawing context and developing discernment in order to guide you to wherever you need to go.. that's what Kavassilas emphasises in his videos I posted: those who are "deceived" are meant to be, it's their path, it's what they need to evolve = so no duality..
Or you saying that when everyone realises the non-dual nature of existence ALL the games will cease and we'll all shake hands and hug?
Maybe some will and some won't.. so the games will continue for some while others will take the side door off the stage (once they dodge the ET disguised as a light being who tries to get them back on the stage by tricking them to take a detour that is)..
