We are the "Aunts" in the family that it is okay to be "you" around us. I laugh, my best friend and I started a tradition with the kids when they were young for a "Bahama Day." We would surprise them at the end of the school year and show up in the morning and take all of them for a "Bahama day skip-out of school" to different places like waterparks or six flaggs with roller coasters. The best thing ever is to see a pre or teen ager react when they get a "reprieve" so to speak.
We have sleepovers with movies a lot and they get to "swear" blah blah, and be real. They took single mattresses off my son's bunkbeds and put them down my stairs with blankets and pillows to cushion, took a vinyl sleeping bag as a vessel, and "surfed" down my steps for a few hours... glad no medical intervention was necessary!

No shots, I hope. I have told all parents, but after that it is up to them.....